FAMILY    

 

POEM:  A FINE EXAMPLE  (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
(Appreciation from daughter to mother)

 

…and what a fine example it is
you showed me how mothers are supposed to relate to their kids
teaching me, by example, how to handle everything
from questionable grades
to hard lessons about how to lie in the bed I’ve made
and I’m a better mother…
because of the example that you set for me
and even when you were forced to discipline
you somehow managed to do it lovingly
I’m blessed, Mom
because so many don’t get to study…
at the feet of the masters
You were not only my Goddess,
you ARE indisputable evidence of God…
creating miracles when times were tough
and teaching me the value of wise choices
to avoid future disasters
while most kids were trying to rebel against their parent’s lessons
I was trying to emulate you in every way
and no one else has ever left me with…
more remarkable impressions
I strive to be as beautiful a mother as you are,
as spectacular a woman as you will always be
thank you…for molding me into who I am
and if my child is ever thankful for my existence
it is only because I had such a fine example to follow…
and I hope every aspect of the good in you is reflected in…me.

 


POEM:  THE COOLEST MOM  (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  Appreciation from daughter to mother

As a child, I tried not to defy you
as an adult, if my friends clowned me about how we hang
it wouldn’t matter, ‘cause…
I would never deny you
but my friends all know and adore you
so they would never say anything like that
because for all of the “fly” that they think they possess
they know, my moms can gie it right back
thank you, for bridging the generation gap
to establish the bond we share
and using that same bond to keep me on the right track
because there’s just something about having a mother
who feels like my “homegirl
but still knows how to GET the respect you’re due
so you won’t have to take me out of this world!
After all, if was you who brought me in
so I recognize you have the power to take me out
but the beautiful thing is,
we never go through the mother-daughter “drama”
I hear the rest of my friends complaining about
and I wish I could take credit for that
but I know better, ‘cause “Mama ain’t raise no fool!”
you have redefined the definition of motherhood
with your unique brand of friendship parenting
I just wish I knew what I did…
to deserve a mother this undeniably cool.


POEM:  A WINNING HAND  (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  Appreciation from wife to husband (family)


Yes, I’ve been dealt a winning hand

and I comprehend the plan
at least the plan that works perfectly for me
a “full house” in this poker game of life
is the same as you and your family
the deck couldn’t be complete without the King and Queen
and now, the kids are like all of the high cards
that fall in between
and it’s not just on this day
that I look back fondly on our beginning
I celebrate you every day, thankful for the hand I’ve been dealt
because each day spent together, is a day spent winning
I watch singles always “shuffling” their “deck”
only to wind up playing solitaire in solitude
so, I’ve always tried to know when to hold ‘em,
know when to fold ‘em…and yet
I never had to “bluff” my way through loving you
you made me feel safe about laying all my cards on the table
and it felt right revealing my hand
because the honesty we share is what keeps this love stable
I want to be in this game with you for as long as God says we can
and I’m blessed to have partnered with you
because every day that we’re together,
I feel like life has dealt me a winning hand!


 

POEM:  DIFFERENT STYLES, SAME RESPECT (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
(Description:  appreciation from son to father)

 

There’s no way to get around it, Dad
your style has always puzzled me
and mine has probably made you mad
we’re just different
but the thing that has always amplified my respect
is how you allowed me to just “do me”
and even when you didn’t understand the direction I was heading in
I never felt like you were restricting or judging me
positioned in manhood now,
I am stronger because of my many mistakes
I am wiser with my decisions today
because of every one that you allowed me to make
you’re more “suit and tie”
I’m more “T shirt and casual kicks”

you’ll always prefer fine dining
and I’ll probably always want to go wherever I can SUPERsize it!
Your approach will always be more conventional
and mine will always be on some…
“let’s break all the rules” type perspective
and even in letting me venture out into the unknown
you always managed to make me feel protected
that’s what’s cool about you, Dad
and I may always shake my head wondering why you…
prefer dress shirts and tie fitted around your neck
with you wondering if I just HAVE TO wear my pants that way
but I’m taking in the all of the lessons you’re teaching
and even with our different styles…it has always been the same respect.

POEM:  ALWAYS YOUR LITTLE GIRL (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
(Description:  Appreciation from daughter to mother)

 

I will always be your little girl
I’ll still retain the li’l bit of brat in me…
that thinks I should be the center of your world
mainly because…
you have always been the center of mine
and feeling nurtured, guided and unconditionally loved
is something that will never change with time
because my eyes still light up when I see you
and if I’m not as “grown” as I think
whenever I do grow up…I still wanna be you
I will never get too old to find my peace in your hug
and I will never allow anything or anyone
to alter the strength of our love
I’ll never be too proud to ask your opinion
when I’m lost and unable to find my way
and I will never be too big or too busy
to call you just to talk about your day
Everything good in me
is directly attributable…
to having always received the best from you
so you see, Mom, there’s not enough mango seasons
I can pass through, to make me believe
that I’m too much woman…to give you the respect you’re due
even though I’m all grown up now
I’m glad you still think of me as your “little girl”
forgive me for only having this card to give you today
because your “baby” would much rather give you…the world.


POEM:  FOR ME (Verse Designer:  Kenneth Harris, Jr.)
(Description:  appreciation of mother from child)

For me…you were everything and everyone…you were the force that rose the sun…you were the creator manifest…if Ali was the greatest, you were the best!...and when you gave me the stare I had better not test…and I had better say “please” at the end of every request…and I had better get hoppin’ if you told me to clean up that mess.

For me…you provided and you chided…you were the rock on which I leaned…you guided…and all the while it seemed…that I could never repay…you…for what you do…everyday…to…give love away…to…a child who…has little more than “I Love You”…to say…and by the way…the years have been good to…you…and in every way…you…are the sophisticated…highly underrated…never duplicated…100% real, not fabricated…no matter how high the praise, never exaggerated…mother.

That is what you are…for me.

 

 


POEM:  GOLDEN LOVE (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
(Description:  Appreciation of husband from wife – for elder couples)

 

Father…Love…Daddy…Friend
from the time we first became a couple…until the end
I have always recognized you as the “provider”
the great love of my life
nothing has made me more proud than becoming your wife
and, my dear, you have made it such a wonderful life
you are the peace of listening to B.B. King strum
while watching people pass by our porch
you are the handsome Billy Dee Williams WISHED he possessed
and it has always been for you
that I carry an eternally burning torch
we continue to love as the years progress
and the graying of your hair is a badge of honor
for life, love and experience…having little to do with stress
I must tell you, watching you transition from father to…
Granddad
has given me the greatest joy
I could ever hope to have had
in my heart you are celebrated every second
not just on this one
and there’s not enough space on the calendar
to express my appreciation for all that you’ve done
in our family, you are our Muddy Waters melody
our Sarah Vaughn song
I never expected to receive
a man who would be such a wonderful husband,
father and grandfather
you have helped keep our family bond strong
your life is anointed and I’m blessed to be in it
I’m voicing it now, but I feel it every second
and if I had it to do all over again…I would only want to do this life with you
and I wouldn’t change one minute.


POEM: GRANDPA, MY SMILE BELONGS TO YOU (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation from granddaughter to grandfather

 

...belongs to you
always will
because you do the “Grandpa” thing so perfectly
that it seems like a learned skill
and if it was, you’d have your Associates,
your Bachelors
and your Masters!
Magna Cum Laude you would easily be
having graduated at the top of your class
with a Granddaddy Ph.D
but my smile would be yours
even if you had flunked every class
because some things can’t be taught or measured
like how you’ve been my perfect support system
no matter how much time has passed
Grandpa, just thinking about you makes me smile
I love everything about you
your sense of humor, what you stand for
your perspective on life
and especially your unique style
I bet Bill Cosby researched you
when it was time to script the perfect father for his show
and I am so lucky to have you in my life
fully realizing that, having the best Grandfather in the world
is a pleasure some kids will never know
I love you and I want you to know that…
although I may not always express it,
I appreciate every little thing you do
and no matter how many people I may share a laugh with,
Grandpa, my smile will always belong to you!


POEM:  I DIDN’T THINK… (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  Appreciation from wife/mate to husband/father of their child

 

I didn’t think…
that it was possible to love you
any more than I already do
but every time I watch you doing your “daddy thing”
it happens all over again…
I fall right back in love with you
I didn’t think…
that I could find you any more handsome
than I’ve always known you to be
but, I swear,
it’s like you get finer by the second
whenever I think about
your dedication to our family
I didn’t think
that your smile
could make me feel any more wonderful
than it already has
but I’m once again proven wrong
each time you make our child laugh
I really didn’t think…
that there was any way
for you to be more wonderful
I’m telling you! I really didn’t think you could find a way
but watching you do your “daddy thing”
makes me realize I am wrong…
so I’m gonna stop thinking…and start talking
“Thank you for being the man that you are!”
 

 

POEM:  LOVE IN FLIGHT  (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation from daughter to father


…EVEN “FLY”

and just riding piggyback on your shoulders
seemed to put me right next to the sky
you made me believe in the possibility of all things
and when you have a strong parent supporting your dreams
you can’t imagine the kind of peace that brings
you are the reason my self esteem has never led me to doubt that I am
worthy
and whether I was laughing, crying or just “kickin’ it” with you
I knew that you weren’t just listening…you really heard me
and it’s because of you, Dad
that I feel like even the sky isn’t the limit
I perched on your shoulders and knew you wouldn’t let me fall
with you lifting me up, my fingers could even skim it
thank you for providing those shoulders
that allowed me a bird’s eye perspective of life’s possibilities
I just want you to know, you never had to pick me up for me to fly
I’ve lived my life soaring among the clouds
because I’m lucky enough to have you for a daddy.

 

POEM:  MY MOTHER’S HUG (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation from daughter to mother

 

The only thing…
that could ever compare to my mother’s hug
has only ever been…my mother’s love
but her hug has always been a direct reflection
of what is held in her heart
and just like her love,
I can feel my mother’s hug
spanning the distance, even when we’re apart
you see, my mother’s hug…
is as smooth as Luther’s croon
my mother’s hug…
is the very force that illuminates the moon
my mother’s hug is Aretha’s perfectly sung note
and my mother’s hug
is every verse that Nikki Giovanni ever wrote
it is the elixir
it is the miracle cure
it is the benediction and the blessing
it is spring water for my soul…because it’s that pure
and if you ever want to know
a little of the peace to be found in “love
I may allow her to bestow it upon you.
but only once, and only for a minute
because I claim it, I praise it, it is mine to cherish
it is…my mother’s hug


POEM:  QUEEN MOTHER  (Verse Designer:  Kenneth Harris, Jr.)
Description:  appreciation of a mother

 
In the tradition of Ma’at
you have been the foundation…
you have given us all you’ve got
you give the love that builds nations…
you have shown me the strength of love…
when the psalms were written,
you are who they were speaking of…
I love you with all of my heart
you are the glue that holds together the parts.
 
You are the regal presence of Makeda
you fight for your honor like Yaa Asantewa
you came from the same Lord that made her…
you are what the so called strong women are really talking about
you embrace the values of antiquity
you face hate and teach unity
one can smell history in your aura
the aura…the presence
the evidence of the love that came before her
with humble repentance,
is taken with care by your hand
you nurture the seed of all man…
I thank you for touching me…
you have shown me how Godly a matriarch can be…
and all can see…that what I mean
in all you have presented me, that I have seen…

mother…love…you are the Queen.


POEM:  SOUL SONG  (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation card from daughter to a mother who always “sang” around the house

 

Sometimes my soul needs your song, Mother
…when I was small, your lilting strain of Rock-A-Bye Baby
and now, your rendition of the latest Beyonce’ offering
it doesn’t matter what you’re doing, what key you’re in…
my soul has always been soothed when you sing
a mother’s song is any song you have ever graced with your voice
since I was a little girl, even if I wanted to be upset or angry
one note from you and a touch…I was left with no choice
it was time to smile
you could shower me with praise, kisses and hugs every second
yet, all the while…
I would long for those moments…
when your focus was on everything and nothing
when you would gaze dreamily while tending to something
subconsciously reflecting on life and begin to…
sing
every note, every lyric, every nuance of the melodies
is my “soul song”, the one I want replayed over and over again
you are my R&B superstar
my pop queen and jazz Diva
I keep loving you in heavy rotation…and you’ve never left my top ten
you never needed to be American to be my idol
my vote is locked by the love you’ve given me all of my days
and if I needed to tally every time you’ve been there for me
through my laughter, my tears, my heartaches
I couldn’t even begin to count the ways
every ounce of love you possess resounds in the voice that rings true
you have always been my Aretha, my Lauryn Hill, my Mary J. Blige
my…soul song
and it’s when you think no-one’s listening and gift your soft singing to the atmosphere…
that I realize how much I love you.


POEM:  TALK OF THE TOWN (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation card to family man/father

 

Living in days when everybody says
”Black men ain’t gonna stick around”
you made their words seem like rhetoric
and that made you the “talk of the town”
watching the envy in other kid’s eyes
while they wondered what a “real family” was like
always caught me by surprise
‘cause I just grew up assuming
everyone had a father like you
then I got older, and realized, more often that not…
this is untrue
so, all eyes were on us
as they watched us interact
to see how a real Daddy gets down
you were a virtual anomaly in the neighborhood
I’m glad “dysfunctional” was a phrase I learned through T.V.
and not life experience…
because you kept our family life sound

I know now, it may not have always been easy
and lesser men would have run from their responsibilities
I’m so glad that wasn’t an option for you, believe me
not because I would have worried
about what people would say, if the day ever came…
that you wouldn’t be around
nah…
it’s because you are as necessary to my life as oxygen
and the love I have for you
would be the same, even if you weren’t the…”talk of the town”.


POEM:  TEEN YEARS  (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description: appreciation card from daughter to parent(s) for putting up with her through her “teen years”

 

I wanna sincerely thank you…


for putting up with me during my teen years
you know, those “in between years”
when I volleyed between the arrogance of independence
and the “I can’t do this on my own” fears
looking back at the things I put you through
I don’t know how you did it
but I’m thankful that you always did…
whatever you had to do…
to guide me, and at the same time
allow me to learn from my own mistakes
‘cause I finally understand what all of your lectures meant
and I’m glad you never gave up on me
for all of our sakes!
How did you do it?
How did you deal with me during my teen years?
you know, those “in between” years
when my favorite saying was…
“YOU JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND!!”
only to find out, years later, that you actually did
and that you always had a plan
I appreciate you now, more than ever
and I understand I’m much more fortunate than many of my peers
because I may not have understood the discipline…
but now I definitely understand the love
and I became who I am today…
because you guided me through those crazy teen years!

 


POEM:  TIME TAKEN  (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation card for grandmother from granddaughter

 

It’s definitely because of the time taken
definitely, it is because of you…
taking the time when I was small
to play silly little games with me
when no one else had the time
it is because you clapped your hands
in joyous mock surprise
whenever I told you I found a penny, or a dime
that has got to be the reason…
the time taken…that’s gotta be it, wouldn’t you say?
it must be because you took the time with me on any given day
from childhood to adulthood
you were nourishment for my soul
helping me surf through the channels of life
and even when you weren’t right in my sight
the respect I have for you was on remote control
you were better than hours spent in front of a T.V.
because the television couldn’t play patty cake
and it certainly couldn’t listen to me
so it must be that, right?  the time taken
specifically, the time you would always take with me
the way I wanted to make you proud
from pre-school “happy face” stickers
to high school “A’s”
because my happiness seemed to be connected to your spirituality
time taken can never be assigned a value
and that’s why I’m taking the time to tell you
you are the perfect Grandmother and I love you!


POEM:  POPS  (Verse Designer:  Kenneth Harris, Jr.)
Description:  appreciation card to father
(can be unisex, but leans more toward the masculine)

 

To quote famous verse…would not only be disingenuous but would make me terse…and give me inclination to curse…because what I wish to say…in my special way…could only come from me…because you are my pops you see…that is why I dedicate these words to you from me…

The way you taught me…has greater value than what you bought me…and for all I need…you often take me aside and plant the seed…when I seem to have no idea what you are saying…when the going gets rough and tough…I draw on your seeds of wisdom without delaying…then I understand…I realized that helping me grow is how you had it planned…and by popular demand…I can be wise…I can draw from your strength, no surprise…and quote you and open other people’s eyes…and sit back to reflect on how you brought me from small fry…to super sized!

and when the hind parts needed fire…you gave it what it required…but you taught in all you did…you got right at my questions, never hid…and when things got tight you were there…when things got right you were there…when I felt fright at night, you were there…when I succeeded, you were there…to remove the mind clutter so I may proceed unimpeded, you were there…you were the man we needed, you were there…and I can have pride in my stride…because if I had questions that I could only keep inside…I could see it…because you were there…I am who I am because of you…and for that, I can proudly say “because of you…Pops…I love you…because you are YOU.

 

POEM:  VISION (Verse Designer:  Kenneth Harris, Jr.)
Description:  appreciation card from man to the mother of his daughter

VISION

When visual stimulus hits my heart…when the love for woman and child is forced to start…and the better part…of me…exists in the hearts of we…and she…came to me…after you came to me…and I am all man, but softer inside than I would claim to be…loving her or you is the same to me.

Seeing her makes me wish…that I could have been your goldfish…when you had one in your room…so that I may consume…even blurred vision of you…put me near the nightlight so that I can see the peace that would make me love you…then we make the same room for mini-she…so much so that my mini love for her grows in large quantities inside the many part of me…and that we…can see…that grown manifestation of all that holds the key…all that holds why we…will be the strength such that we want, need and have to be.

When I hear you speak to her…it is as though avoiding being meek to her…with the lessons I know you tell…oh so well…and to see her personality gel…makes my tear well…and eyes swell…and if I cry before you finish reading…it is because my heart, full of love, is bleeding…and I am in touch with my inner being…I am feeling what the parents of civilization wishes we all could have been seeing…and she is your little piece of art…and when I add my part…man, don’t make me start…beaming as a dad would…and with all the pride that a dad could…and seeing all that every dad should…and we both know that…it…is…all…good!


POEM:  STEP OUT (Verse Designer:  Kenneth Harris, Jr.)
Description:  appreciation for “stepfather” from stepson

Dad…it is who you have been to me…you have been there from
the first words to the first time the devil sent sin through me…I
love you with all my heart…because you have been family to me from the start…and if you were to open your eyes to it…you would see limits only capped by the heavens as to how I admire the way you do it.

You are the “Dad” I love…you are the dad I put no one above…you are the dad that makes me glad…that I have had the privilege to have had…and although we are not blood…if you are the rose, I am your bud…I am your seed by extension…and did I mention…the way you love mom is the bomb!...and the way you have been on point…I would like to anoint….that if we are separated by biology…then we are bound by psychology…because when I speak of “Dad” it is you…and when I tell everybody that I love my “Dad”, it is you…when all this may have entered my thoughts and crept out…I only wish that by all means, you were in fact my Dad, and we could just take the “Step” out.

 

 

POEM:  MY GRANDPA (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation for grandfather from “small” grandchild(ren)

 

I love my Grandpa
and my Grandpa just loves him some me!
and I know that won’t change
whether I’m three weeks old,
or one hundred and three
and as long as you promise
you knee belongs to me
I will bounce on it
until my attention turns to other things
but I’m still gonna want to
have you tell me stories
either from a book
or from the life you’ve lived
and I promise that I’ll always have a kiss for you
just like I’ll always happily take…
any candy treat you have to give
‘cause I love my Grandpa!
and I know my Grandpa just loves him some me
nothing about that will ever change
it’ll be the same today
and it will when I’m one hundred and three!

 


POEM:  DAD, YOU DESERVE A HUG (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  Appreciation for father from daughter

 

not just for today,
but one for every breath that you take
because I can’t even begin to imagine
if you weren’t the type of father that you are,
what would be at stake
I can barely imagine a life left to my own devices
with someone like you not caring enough
to guide me through my mistakes
you have been there to make sure
I never looked toward “hood rat” ambitions
and when it came to me wanting to try new things
you were always at the ready, making it your mission…
to be certain that I knew what I may be getting myself into
some things you let me learn the hard way
and some falls you cushioned with your advice
and that is why I have so much love for you
this hug is not something kept on reserve
for a day when “society” deems you worthy
this hug is yours anytime I can give it
it’s yours because you’ve earned it from the moment I was born
and for every second that you’ve loved me!

 

POEM:  THE MEANS (Verse Designer:  Kenneth Harris, Jr.)
Description:  appreciation from son to father who was once a “hustler”

 

Looking back on what you tried…you are lucky to not have been part of the slaughter…out on these streets treading water…you could have died…but needed to earn…needed to quiet hunger’s burn…needed the family to get this thing turned…in another direction….and the hustle provided us protection…but this ode to you is based on my own reflection.

But we are beyond that…mom said you decided to man up and stand up and that’s a fact…and that cannot be said with tact…you did it, and I love you…in many ways, I will always be your li’l man, no one is above you…knowing that if a hair on my head is in stress…you will be there to be the best…that you can be…dad of the week on tv…and if I needed you back on the track…even though it is wack…that is where you will be…and you and me will be there standing tall back to back…because we just get down like that…but it will not be…at this point, it is not necessary…like you, the sun has set on that aspect of me…and all I can see…is warm, blue sky for you and me…thanks, Dad, ‘cause that is how the end of a hustler’s run ought to be.


POEM:  SON, I’M SO PROUD (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation from mother to son, praising his parenting

 

You’ll have to be the one to tell me
if I can lay claim to any “credit”
for how wonderful a man and father you’ve turned out to be
I don’t want to be presumptuous…
and assume that I’m the reason for who you are
but I’ll tell you, baby…
if I’m even a minimal part
that would be enough to make me feel like a superstar
watching you with them is like watching a master at work
and I know your children will grow up beautifully
full of the knowledge you’ll pass down to them
and an unshakeable sense of self worth
we are so alike in so many ways
but to know that I played any part in who you are now
would be a blessing that can carry me…
through the rest of my days
it’s what every mother wants
to have her teachings received
and to get through each day able to believe
that you would pick up the best of me
and know how to disregard the worst
I watch you navigate fatherhood so skillfully
It’s like God cast you for the starring role
and you never even had to rehearse!
If you credit me with being the producer,
the director
or even the supporting cast
for the role of the magnificent man you’ve become
then I’ll accept the honor graciously, and gratefully
so, thank you, for being the father you are…
and making me so proud to have you as a son.


POEM:  LARGER THAN LIFE (Verse Designer:  Terri A. Meredith)
Description:  appreciation of grandfather from grandson

 

...and a big heart
…and a humongous soul
because, Grandpa, you see
everything about you has always seemed so BIG
because you’ve always been larger than life to me
I mean, you are the creator of the person who created me
so, from adulthood going all the way back to infancy
you have always been a giant among men
the one who could discipline me in one instance
and turn around in another
to return to being my best friend
you’ve always had a big head, Grandpa
perfectly suited to hold the wisdom and stories
of what it was like for you back in the day
that head seemed to house every bit of information I’ve ever
needed
whenever I came to you…
because I was struggling to find my way

your hands seemed so large and
perfectly proportioned
to carry the world in their palms
in so many ways, you’ve been my closest connection to God
you have been my scripture, my verse, my lessons and my psalms
I hold you in such high esteem
because you’ve never let me down
even when it seemed like a parent couldn’t understand,
or didn’t have time
I could count on my Grandpa to always be around
you are the elder who gives the village its guidance
and you deserve every prop for handling the duties of a strong, Black patriarch so efficiently
you have always had a big head, Grandpa…because you’ve always been a giant among men
so everything about you is huge in my eyes…
since you’ve always been LARGER THAN LIFE to me.

 


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